Wednesday, April 18, 2007
I Am Married For 5 Months!...
“You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough.” - Frank Crane
I am very happy to say that I am married for 5 months already. *laugh out loud* Today is our 5 months anniversary. So excited and by next month, it is going to be our 6 months anniversary. Tomorrow 19 April 2007 will also signify that our wedding is like 9 more months to go. I am so excited over all these things!
Well, I am taking this opportunity to say I love you very much, Mr. Ant Leong. You are the best hubby in the whole wide world (I mean in my own honest opinion *giggles*).
Right now, Ant is always busy feeding me milk. I mean he bought few types of milk, different brands and encouraged me to drink milk. After trying so many brands, the one that I can ‘tahan’ is Marigold HL milk. The rest I couldn’t stand. You guys know I hate milk right?
Ant wants me to drink so that my body is healthy enough for our future babies. He wants me to be prepared and drinking milk is one of it. So that I will have a lot of calcium to be passed down to our kids. *laugh out loud* I find it very funny that Ant behaves this way. Quite funny and cute, I would say.
I am happy that my hubby is like this. He makes me feel so cherished, so protected and so fragile. I really hope both of us will stay this way. In fact, I heard many cases (friends or friends of friends) who were happily married and then out of sudden, the men changed. Actually I don’t have to look far. My mum is one of the examples. My dad just changed 360 degrees that I cannot even recognize him anymore.
A lot of people asked me to be cautious and never put 100% into a relationship. I was thinking if I don’t put 100% of my feelings, my trust and my everything into a relationship, will I be getting 100% back from my hubby?
I personally feel when a person is in a relationship or marriage, he or she should put 100% of his or her everything into the relationship. There is no holding back. I feel love and everything has risks. The more risk we take, the more we are going to be rewarded. I want to take the risk. I want to give Ant 200% of my love, my trust and my everything. I believe if someone gives 100%, another party will also reciprocate 100%. If you give 50%, another party will also reciprocate 50% or even less!!!
Some of my friends even asked me to have my own secret savings and hid it from Ant. I feel it is so ridiculous. I am not going to do that. I am going to dump everything into our joint saving account. If Ant does the same to me, I would feel hurt. So I don’t want Ant to be hurt. I feel I am a modern woman and I am capable to take good care of myself if one day (touchwood), Ant really doesn’t want me anymore, I can fend for myself. I have monthly salary. I have income. I have qualification and I have skills. So I am not worried!
But I know Ant will never do that to me. I have faith in him and also myself. I love you very much, Mr. Ant Leong. I love you and I love you. I will say it a thousand times to prove how much I love you. *hugs*
Happy Anniversary, Darling!
Posted by Angie Siew ::
6:20 PM ::
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